What makes a couple stay together and feel they have found the One? What makes a random encounter exceptional? How can you know if you have chosen the right person? And how can you avoid wasting precious time?
The book ‘The 4 Foundations of Love’ is based on a fascinating study, in which a great number of successful couples were interviewed for one purpose: to capture the essence of their unique relationship - what makes them keep loving their partner years after they have met, or even love them more.
According to an NLP model, these couples share the following 4 crucial foundations:
Rareness - the moment of realization that this is our destined partner.
Unwritten Agreement - the essence of words used instinctively and their impact on the quality of the relationship.
Sacred Bond - the relationship’s sacred element and the couple’s divine connection.
Future Dimension - the promise of a mutual future.
Hundreds of couples who have implemented this method in their relationships, have claimed that it has restored their sense of confidence and control, created intimacy and power, and elevated their relationship to a unique level of spirituality. Thus, you can reshape your relationship and take to it the next level with joy and ease: without overbearing conversations, without trying to convince your partner, without games, and without waiting for your partner’s cooperation.
This guide is for anyone who is interested in relationships, especially romantic ones; whether you have been dating someone special and want to take it onto passionate lasting love, or you are in a healthy, serious relationship you wish to improve, deepen and maintain. But it will also help you if you are in the midst of a relationship crisis and would like to prevent a breakup, or you a single person looking for love.
This book could also be helpful for therapists, and other professionals in related fields.
About the author:
The author is a researcher and entrepreneur in the medical field. She has an M.Sc.Med and MBA, as well as being a qualified NLP therapist, assisting couples overcoming breakups and relationship crises.
Identifying and mapping the four foundations, is a focal tool the author has used in her work with hundreds of women going through a relationship crisis, looking to rectify their relationship status.
Applying the method with these women, showed that couples who already had the four elements (even if their needed strengthening) could easily reconnect and rectify their relationship. However, couples who didn’t have these elements, were more inclined to breakup, disconnect and move on.
In this book, the author describes the possibility of predicting the continuation of a relationship according to the existence and strength of these foundations. It also describes how prepare the ground for establishing them, to ensure your relationship becomes eternal.